The Present
In a university commencement address several
years ago, Brian Dyson, CEO of Coca Cola Enterprises, spoke of the relation of
work to one's other commitments.
"Imagine life as a game in which you are
juggling some five balls in the air. You name them - work, family, health,
friends and spirit - and you're keeping all of these in the air. You will soon
understand that work is a rubber ball, if you drop it, it will bounce back.
But the other four balls - family, health,
friends and spirit - are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be
irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. :( They will
never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your
life.
How?
1. Don't undermine your worth by comparing yourself with
others. It is because we are different that each of us is special!
2. Don't set your goals by what other people deem
important. Only you know what is best for you.
3. Don't take for granted the things closest to your
heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is
meaningless
4. Don't let your life slip through your fingers by
living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time,
you live ALL the days of your life.
5. Don't give up when you still have something to give.
Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
6. Don't be afraid to admit that you are less than
perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each other.
7. Don't be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking
chances that we learn how to be brave.
8. Don't shut love out of your life by saying it's
impossible to find.
9. The quickest way to receive love is to give it; the
fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep
love is to give it wings.
10. Don't run through life so fast that you forget not
only where you've been, but also where you are going.
11. Don't forget a person's greatest emotional need is to
feel appreciated.
12. Don't be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a
treasure you can always carry easily.
13. Don't use time or words carelessly. Neither can be
retrieved.
14. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each
step of the way!
Yesterday is History, Tomorrow is a Mystery and
Today is a Gift: that's why we call it
The Present!